As onlies, we pride ourselves on being able to cope with life solo. The truth is that we can’t, at least not in healthy ways. We need something more, just as everyone needs something more. More importantly, and more accurately, we need someone more. Everyone does. I don’t care if you have siblings or parents or even grandparents there with you fighting the good fight, you need someone more. God is that someone more.
We were not created to go through this life alone. It’s much too difficult, much too lonely to go it alone. Your friends won’t always get you. Your parents won’t always get you. Your significant other won’t always get you. But you will always be accompanied by your creator, our creator. He does not abandon, even though it feels that way, even though you have pain and questions and doubt. There is a method to His madness, and who the heck are we to question such madness.
No matter how many deaths I’ve been dealt, one thing I never fully give up on is God and His love for me. If he didn’t love me, I wouldn’t exist, neither would any of those wonderful beings I’ve loved and lost. He didn’t ‘take them away’ as punishment. Living with God is the opposite of punishment. Yet if we don’t have faith, those of us left behind view this world as punishment. Faith allows us to see that we are left behind for a REASON greater than ourselves.
So as you lay your head down tonight, remember to thank Him for the opportunity of gracing one more soul with his goodness, of blessing one more loved one with his Truth and Mercy. Let us see that this life isn’t about us, but about something so much greater than we can fathom. That is God’s Love and Mercy and Grace.